Fisting

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It’s understandable that some people may not be up to speed on fisting. Chances are, most parents and health teachers don’t cover this technique during the “birds and bees” talk.

 

For now, let’s excuse them, considering birds and bees don’t have fists.

 

Also called handballing, fisting is when a person puts his/her entire hand into another’s anus or vagina.

 

For those who enjoy fisting, it can be a highly intense and pleasurable feeling for both the receiving and giving partner.  While many enjoy the sensations, it is important to understand there can be risks involved. Fisting can create intense pleasure, but it can also cause pain and tissue damage. It is a sexual behaviour that requires trust, communication, preparation, relaxation, patience, and lots of lube.

 

 

Hosting a hand inside your ass can be quite an extraordinary experience. Some people find delight in working their way up far further than just the hand, while others get off on the sensation of stretching and density.

Fisting can be porn star brutal but also loving and caring.

Safe, pleasurable fisting is possible with a calmness, responsibility and awareness both in the person(s) giving and receiving. Fisting often gets more enjoyable with experience.

 

There are some things you can do to prepare the way… since the fist might go deeper than the penis, most people like to do more than to take a poo.

 

 

You can prepare by eating soup the day before. Fibers are good and do avoid white bread and similar food. A tasty spicy dish is also not recommended… Some people prefer to take an enema pill before, others like to douche thoroughly about an hour before.

Afterwards one might need to massage the belly in order to get rid of the excess water that otherwise might come out during the fisting session.

During a fisting session, it is really really important to be conscious of both your own body and the other person(s) body/bodies and boundaries.

This makes for a respectful start. Take the time to relax together and let the body gradually adjust to accommodate bigger and bigger things.

 

Everyone’s body is different. Some people can take in nearly an entire hand on the first try, while others will have to try a few times over a longer period.

 

Be patient!

 

For instance, start with one finger and maybe some rimming (sensual ass licking). Then try adding more fingers, and penetration with a penis or dildo.

 

If it hurts or feels unpleasant, slow things down or stop. Try to ‘read’ each other using words, or being aware of the signals conveyed by moans, breathing and body language.

 

To make fisting safer and more pleasurable, it’s vital to use plenty of lubrication. Various kinds of fats can be used for fisting, but they don’t mix well with condoms – read more below.

 

 

The tissue in the rectum is quite thin and fragile, which means damage and bleeding can easily occur.

 

To reduce the risk of injury, it’s recommended that the giver has short, well-filed nails and removes any rings and other jewellery that may scratch and tear the anal cavity.

Anal bleeding increases the risk of passing on or receiving viruses like HIV, Hepatitis B and Hepatitis C.

These can also be transmitted if the giver has any minor wounds on the hands and arms. Latex or plastic gloves provide good protection for both giver and receiver and are widely available from pharmacies.

 

Never use the same glove on more than one person.

 

Some people use oil-based creams (such as J-lube, Crisco or skin lotions) when fisting, but be aware that it damages latex condoms.

If you want to use an oil-based fat as lube, it’s a good idea to use plastic gloves. If you fancy penetration with your penis, use a standard condom before you fist.

Oil-based creams can remain in the body and continue to damage latex condoms for up to 24 hours after usage. But you can always use plastic condoms, order them online since they are usually not available in regular stores.

 

The entire anal area is sensitive after fisting, both inside and around the anal opening. For this reason, it’s particularly important to use a condom if you’re having penile penetrative sex within the next few days after fisting. Also avoid licking an ass that’s been recently fisted.

 

Take care of yourself and your fisting buddies!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Source: Go Ask Alice / The Sexperts